Boom whackers

4-5's performed their version of "It's a New Year" at assembly.

Shaping our destiny

 Finally warm enough to head outside!

 Jen '08 and Imani, Zali, and Peter '10 all visited today.

President Obama promoted study of STEM topics (science, technology, engineering, math) in his State of the Union last night.

We have made the investment in science at Parker  - and in STEM.  It really starts in Pre K:  exploring materials and states of matter, building with a huge variety of materials, collections of outdoors treasures... Inquiry and experimentation - asking questions - are the main focus.  Having a science teacher in the elementary years as we do is unusual in schools.

We have 4 alumni visiting today.  Peter has done so well in biology as a freshman that his teacher gave him the labs to perform independently and he took the Regent Exam this week.  These students are motivated questioners.  Just what the president ordered.

"We are the first nation to be founded for the sake of an idea—the idea that each of us deserves the chance to shape our own destiny. That's why centuries of pioneers and immigrants have risked everything to come here. It's why our students don't just memorize equations, but answer questions like 'What do you think of that idea? What would you change about the world?' "

Education Week talks about it further.

The redemptive process of collaboration

Trying, failing, a community working together, collaboration.  Here is what David Brooks had to say about our gratitude for this process:

...every sensible person in public life also feels redeemed by others. You may write a mediocre column or make a mediocre speech or propose a mediocre piece of legislation, but others argue with you, correct you and introduce elements you never thought of. Each of these efforts may also be flawed, but together, if the system is working well, they move things gradually forward.

Each individual step may be imbalanced, but in succession they make the social organism better.

As a result, every sensible person feels a sense of gratitude for this process. We all get to live lives better than we deserve because our individual shortcomings are transmuted into communal improvement. We find meaning — and can only find meaning — in the role we play in that larger social enterprise. 

More about this article from Quantum Progress

Awesome Parker parents

Parker parents know how to make us feel appreciated!  Parents and grandparents made a scrumptious feast for the teachers and staff on Thursday.  And they stayed with the students while the teachers feasted.  There was plenty left to be taken home for dinner, too!  Thank you to all of our awesome parents, who not only cook, they drive, raise money, pitch in, shelve books, serve on our Board, come to meetings, give whenever asked, and are our unfailing partners in educating the amazing children of Parker.  Thank you, thank you!

Snow day activity

To Really Learn, Quit Studying and Take a Test  The title is a bit misleading, but the concept rings true.  This study shows that writing about what you have just read makes the topic stick in your brain longer.

Because the act of writing causes the writer to analyze information, it makes sense that it allows for better recall.  "...the struggle involved in recalling something helps reinforce it in our brains."
 
So get out those reading-response journals, kids!  After a romp in the snow, curl up in a warm blanket with a cup of hot cocoa and a book.  Read, then write.  Great activity for a snow day!

Boys and sticks

Haven't you always wondered?  Why do boys like sticks?  Slate answers:  http://www.slate.com/id/2280989/

Controversial parenting

More on the nice vs tiger parenting wars!

Retreat of the Tiger Mother
No More Mrs. Nice Mom

The great parenting debate

Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior
Amy Chua is a Wimp
The Chinese Mom Backlash

Amy Chua's book and a Wall Street Journal article have caused a major parenting debate storm!  Who does it better?  Chinese-style parents or American parents?

Some debaters point out that while American parents look longingly at test scores in Asian nations, many Chinese mothers (not Yale professor Chua) wish for more creativity and choice for their children.

David Brooks argues that it's not the softer parenting style of American mothers, but Chua, who never let her daughters go to sleepovers or do crafts, who's the wimp.  "She doesn't understand what's cognitively difficult and what isn't.  Practicing a piece of music for four hours requires focused attention, but it is nowhere near as cognitively demanding as a sleepover with 14-year-old girls."

Cooperation and ingenuity are developed from tons of practice.  Because functioning well in a group is really hard.  Ask any third grader at the end of a school day spent finalizing essays and putting together a dinosaur museum at Parker.  Then look at how their eyes shine with satisfaction and accomplishment on opening day.

Parent, John Arnason  sent me this photo he took at dusk on Parker's trails.  "It was a beautiful ski by moonlight.  Just me and the owls," he said.  No debate there.

It's about the students

Wellesley College professor and author of Inside School Turnarounds, Laura Pappano, wrote recently in the Christian Science Monitor  that what really makes the difference for schools is when teachers connect with students. 

"When you talk with students about school turnaround, you realize how much this is about them – not just the school’s data points. What changes their paths isn’t a formula or a grueling push for a better profile. It’s a connection, a context, a caring."

Personal connection and caring are crucial for learning - along with high expectations for each individual.  How did these ideas get lost in the general culture of schools? Why are business-type goals and high-stakes testing to measure school success considered ways to make learning better for individuals?

In our small environment at Parker, all our connections: teacher - student, student - student, teacher - parent, parent - parent make the difference.  Knowing each other and being a community with shared goals is crucial to the end result.  Learning, success, satisfaction, and confidence soar!

Are boys and girls hardwired differently?

Experts disagree on this.  NPR discussion ensues.(You can listen in...)

What do we see in school?  In the Pre K, generally, there seem to be differences in how boys and girls play, but there are always exceptions.  Or maybe it's all in the way we have been acculturated to think about it...

Boys and girls both love skiing and reading!